See movie for yourself & consider what is fair:

  • The Burning Bed (1984) Farrah Fawcett. True story. An abused & battered wife has had enough of her husband beating up on her. Everywhere she turns for help, there’s not much anyone will do. After he rapes her one night, she sets the bed on fire with him asleep in it. She did NOT GO TO PRISON BECAUSE IT WAS RULED SELF-DEFENSE.